Is it equally as looked down upon for women to only date rich & for men for men to only date beautiful women?
Im just curious, because I feel it is more looked down upon for a woman to only date rich men. Even if she is not a gold digger, and will only marry a man she loves, she just happens to choose one who has money and can provide for her. I dont think this is wrong, but natural. Also, men who only date…
Im just curious, because I feel it is more looked down upon for a woman to only date rich men.
Even if she is not a gold digger, and will only marry a man she loves, she just happens to choose one who has money and can provide for her. I dont think this is wrong, but natural.
Also, men who only date beautiful women — if he can, why not?
Studies show over-and-over again that physically beautiful people are preferred, so it makes sense that if a guy can choose between two girls (with the same personas) — one beautiful, one ugly or average…of course he will choose the better looking one.
So why are either of these looked down upon to begin with? Also, which do YOU think is looked down upon more and why…of course your thoughts on this in general are important. Thank you! =)
I think the people who look down on these things are speaking out of envy or from jealously. Most of us want to be in Love or be loved. But reality has shown us that Love does not pay the bills. So one would have to ask themselves, do I want to be homeless while loving this person? Or could I love another and be more comfortable? Women get more of a bad rap for marrying into money. Who wants to be a fool?
It depends just how much younger. Anyway if its 100% true love, and shes about the age of 18, theres nothing wrong with it. But 99% of the time it isnt. It is 100% shallow love. Or even if ONE is really in love, its not true love that will amount to anything unless its mutual. Its looked down upon mainly, because often the older man could be the younger womans ******* father. And you should not be attracted to someone young enough to be your daughter. Also because its assumed to be shallow, as it almost always is. He loves the young body and she loves the money. Just pathetic, and a waste of time. And partly because the two people in the relationship are so delusional. Personality wise and looks, are very different things. IF a woman likes her father, shell want to date someone who REMINDS her of him. If she hates him, shell look for a guy opposite of him. There is a difference between wanting to date someone who has traits similar to her fathers that she likes, and dating a man that is old enough that he COULD be her father. If age is how you define your father, thats sad. And you should not be attracted to him either. Thank you for proving the delusional point.
Everyone prefers someone who is attractive to them. Its not just men who want beautiful women. Women want handsome men. Key thing to remember is attraction is a personal thing. Its all about personal tastes. People who say otherwise are in denial and trying to make themselves look better without realizing what they are actually saying is actually more insulting.
As for the women only dating rich men it can be wrong. If the woman really loves the guy and he just so happens to be rich its fine. It becomes sort of twisted if she pursues him because she knows he is rich and tells herself Ill grow to love him. If hes fine with it thats fine. However if he wants more its wrong. Hes being played with and used. Basically someone who wants true love should not be tricked into a lukewarm relationship just because the other person wants to leech off of them. It sort of makes me glad that rich people mostly stick w/ their own kind. Id do the same tbqh.
Both are looked down on and I couldnt say which more. Its funny that people would look down on others for preferring beauty since everyone prefers it. Even if someone was attracted to someone who the majority considered ugly they would still be preferring beauty because that is their opinion of beauty. I could see why the money thing would be looked down on because leeches and gold diggers are basically users who come up w/ excuses.
Regardless if it is looked down, people have what is called a preference.
Sure, even if it totally superficial and materialistic, it is what THEY prefer. If I prefer to date Caucasian men, that is MY preference, not yours. If you believe that I should be LOOKED DOWN UPON because of MY OWN preference, not only is that absolutely unreasonable, but that just proves my theory that human beings are never satisfied.
If a man wishes to only date beautiful women, that is his decision. Sure, he could be over-compensating for another area in his life. But hey, if it makes him happy and he is not a threat to the lives of other human beings, what is the issue?
It is WRONG to persecute someone for their personal preference in relationships/sexuality.
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