Some people out there are making dating MUCH too complicated.
Of course, getting really good with women isnt easy. If it were easy, everyone would do it. But just because its not something you can do in an afternoon doesnt mean that it has to becomplicated.
So, here are 5 simple facts you should know if you want to date more women:
Fact 1 on how to date beautiful women: Beautiful women choose to be beautifulNo supermodel 10 looks like a 10 when she wakes up in the morning. Trust me, Ive woken up next to a few. Shechoseto make the most of her genetic gifts and spend the time at the gym, the spa, the mall, the hairdresser, and so on.
A lot of men act like they resent beautiful women. They think that these women are all vain, or unintelligent, or shallow (or they say that thats what they think usually they just resent a history of rejection from beautiful women).
If you were a woman, wouldnt you make the most of your looks (and personality) to get better with men?
Repeat after me: I love being around beautiful women. I thrive when Im around beautiful women. Internalize those beliefs. And then act on them.
Fact 2 on how to date beautiful women: Beautiful women are just peopleNo, thats not a typo. Some guys think that beautiful women come from another planet, or that attracting such a woman is like picking a lock or disarming a bomb.
Beautiful women like to laugh and joke around with friends, dont want everyone to put them on a pedestal, and want to be treated as an individual instead of a caricature just like any other woman, or indeed, any other person.
Of course, most beautiful women have higher standards on average (and less time to develop an interest in, say, your computer game collection), but theres nothing wrong with standards.
One thing that we see over and over in surveys after someone takes a Love Systems Bootcamp/ Day Game Workshop and learns how to qualify womenis now I can finally raise my standards and stop settling. She doesnt want to settle either so dont make her feel like shes settling when she meets you.
Fact 3 on how to date beautiful women: Beautiful women have met Mr. Generic Guy beforeYou are not the Warren Buffett of dating. If you see an attractive woman and want to meet her youre not the first man to try. Or even the 1000th.
Heres what 99% of men do: Try to get over their approach anxietyand eventuallyapproach the girl. If they do approach her, theylltry to make up something cool to say on the spot. If that works, theyll ask her lots of questions and look for things they have in common
and this is why 99% of men fail. And when they dont fail, they dont call it skill. They call it getting lucky which is exactly what it is.
Love Systems is based on watching what the other 1% of guys do, breaking it down into simple steps that everyone can use, and then sharpening it all so its much more powerful than what even the best naturals do.
If you dont already have the Magic Bullets Handbook, its a great place to start to learn the Love Systems secrets. Or if youre a more of a hands-on kind of guy and learn by doing, then consider abootcamp or day game workshop.
Remember, being beautiful is a choice. Women who make that choice want it to pay off with better-quality men in their life. Just like you wouldnt go back to settling for women youre not attracted to after you get the skills from a Love Systems bootcamp, a beautiful woman isnt likely to settle when she gets attention from lots of different men.
All of the effort she puts in herself has a purpose to feel good about herself and to be more attractive to men. Interesting men. Men who understand women.
Men who knowhow to talk to girls. Men who understand how to flirt and how to seduce a woman without awkwardness. Men who know Love Systems.
Even if she looks busy or like she doesnt want to meet anyone if shes at a bar, club, party, or somewhere else where people meet her youre not going to get any points for being respectful. All youll get is a birds-eye view when another Love Systems-trained man approaches her, starts flirting, and shows how to get women.
Sure, a lot of women will SAY that they dont want to meet guys, or that the constant attention bothers them. And sometimes it does. But, when youunderstand female psychology, you learn this is just something women have to say, or they become easy targets for women who are jealous of them.
Fact 5 on how to date beautiful women: Beautiful women have a lot in commonI get asked all the time questions like does Love Systems work in [whatever country] or just in the U.S.?
Thats pretty funny to me because Im not American and almost no one involved in Love Systems at the beginning was American or living in the U.S. The real question 10 years ago should have been OK you crazy guys from the UK, Australia, Germany, etc. does this stuff work in the U.S.?
And of course it does. Its been proven more times than I can count, but WHY? If cultures are different, how can the same overall approach work across cultures?
The reason is that culture lays on top of biology. The biological instincts of a young attractive man will be the same in Michigan as they are in Mali or Madras. Culture will impact what he does with those instincts, but theyre there. Same with beautiful women.
A 10 in Hong Kong has much more in common with a 10 in London than she does with a 4 back home. Thats why its important to learnhow to date 9s and 10s.
This isnt just an interesting piece of sociology. It has an impact. Becauseif beautiful women tend to have the same biological instincts around the world, then they respond to the same things. Thats why we were able to boil these characteristics down to 8 key attraction switches in Magic Bullets.
If you dont know anything about a woman other than that shes beautiful, then it doesnt matter whether youre in Paris or Pennsylvania you best bet is to use the same 8 attraction switches until you make her like you.