I get a lot of emails from guys asking me about beautiful women.
They ask me about the best ways to approach beautiful women.
Or they ask me how beautiful women in certain countries are different from others.
They also ask me about the mistakes men make with beautiful women.
So I thought I just make a universal list of things that hold guys back from having success with beautiful women in any country.
Sure there are some cultural differences in countries. But when it comes to very beautiful women there are my similarities.
In this article, I will sometimes refer to beautiful women as 10s.
So dont get confused if you hear the number 10.
A 10 is a very beautiful woman and a 1 is the exact opposite.
So lets start with 10 reasons beautiful women wont date you.
She exists in a different reality than most women.
In fact, she has lived in a different world since she was a girl.
With the rise of online dating many average and below-average women have been bombarded by messages from desperate men.
This has given these women the delusional impression that they are very attractive.
The reality is that these women have been bombarded by desperate men jerking off at home.
These men send hundreds of messages to women a day with the hope of getting lucky.
These men have no shot with most women in real life so they just sent out as many massages as they can with the hope of getting lucky.
With the result that many of these womens ego gets inflated by a false reality.
They start thinking that most men find them attractive.
But when it comes to beautiful women the reality is very real.
There is nothing delusional about her own awareness of her attractiveness.
She knows she is very beautiful and she is right.
She is very aware of the power this gives her.
And she literally gets thousands of messages every day in her inbox from the few dating apps she has time for.
All the very beautiful women that I know and have dated tell me the same thing:
They have no time to check all the message they get. So they randomly open messages when they do have time.
In her physical world that is not online, she experiences the same amount of attention.
Although in the real world the millions of desperate men dont have the balls to even approach her or even say a word.
Of the thousands of men that are left at least some have the balls to approach her.
But their incompetence and lack of self-awareness expose them as average desperate chumps.
When a 10 walk into a room she is immediately treated differently.
Since she was a girl her beauty has put most men in a trans and she has learned how to use this power to get what she wants.
Her appearance has made her the center of attention her whole life.
And with this experience came a radar for men.
She can sum you up even before you reach her location.
She has already summed you up before you opened your mouth.
And mostly its just a confirmation for her when you do open your mouth.
She has learned the nuances of body language and her bullshit meter is as sensitive as a lioness.
She gets discounts when she goes shopping and she has very little experience of people being rude to her.
She lives in a reality that most women and men dont even begin to understand.
So she spends hours in the gym and in beauty salons.
She makes sure her diet is on point and takes care of her skin.
She knows what she has and she plans to hold that power as long as she can.
The problem is most men dont even think about this reality and thereforedont understandwhat they are getting into.
As mentioned previously, a 10 has a bullshit meter that is extremely sensitive.
She can read your body language and make an assessment of who you are in a second.
Its in their DNA to read body language and evaluate men.
A woman of her caliber has it down to a science.
She has so much experience with men that she is almost always right.
The good news is this is something that is in your control.
The bad news is she will expose you and rip you apart if you dont deal with it.
If your confidence is not her level or higher then you are going to crash and burn.
You need to believe that you are in her league or better.
If you dont take care of your self-esteem then you will end up in one place only.
You need to get control of your mindset and the way you see the world and the universe.
Then you need to evaluate your view of the universe and start living a reality that is powerful.
If you have thoughts in your mind like the following then you are going down:
If she rejects me its the end of the world
Or any thought that makes you needy in any way .then you are done.
Again this is a way you walk through the world.
If your self worth is low then you will get exposed.
You need to start seeing yourself as a high-value man.
If you dont then you are done before you even open your mouth.
A mistake many men make is putting a woman on a pedestal.
In fact, they will even reward her if she acts badly.
She can even embarrass him and walk all over him and he will still think she is his princess who can do no wrong.
If you lose your balls then you will lose her.
If you have no personality, humor or character then you should just pack it up now and call it a day.
If you are a boring person then you have 2 choices:
Improve or give up trying to date high-class women.
If you are not willing to become a better human in the hopes of becoming a morehigh-value manthen you can give up now.
If you dont believe it then she wont believe it.
If you dont believe in yourself then she will not believe in you.
If you have low confidence she will expose you before you even open your mouth.
If you have average confidence she will expose you when you start talking to her.
And if you have similar confidence than hershe will test you.
But if you have more confidence than her she will find you interesting.
Again the good news is this is in your control.
The bad news is that if your confidence is low then it will take some hard work to improve to get to her level.
There are a lot of bullshit artists and charlatans selling the idea that you can be a bum with a good personality and you can get the 10.
OK sure, you might be able to fake it if you are a good bullshit artist and you have high social intelligence.
But that type of bullshit never lasts and will get exposed in a day or 2.
1000s of men wants to sleep with her and be her boyfriend or husband.
Lets say you do have a nice personality, but you dont have a job,career, business or resources.
Remember women are hardwired to go where resources are.
Dont fool yourself into a reality where you think those things dont matter.
And Im not saying you have to be a millionaire or billionaire.
But if you dont have a mission in life and dont have any resources.
Then finding women of high class is going to be hard.
Money is not everything and it wont make you get the girl.
Its just part of the overall value you provide as a man.
But money and resources do make it a lot easier.
But being an asshole with money will get you nowhere.
I know plenty of guys with lots of money who cant get any women.
She might use the guy for a night or 2 but thats it.
In other words. Get your inner game(self-esteem, confidence) and life in order.
Then at the same time make sure your mission(money, job, business, career) is on point.
Be in controlof your life and she might let you control her.
(8)You Try To Use Logic To Get Her To Like You
If you think you are going to persuade women with logic to be attracted to you. then you will also end in the no fucking section.
But a 10 wont even give you the time of day to try it.
If you have a lot of money or resources she might use you for a week or 2 and then dump you.
But if you think logic will get you women like this then you are in the wrong game.
If you dont know how to spark a womens emotions then you will lose.
Women are hard-wired to be led by their feelings.
Logic is something thatmales are more guided by.
(9)You Start Acting Like an Idiot In Her Presence
One of the most common mistakes men make with beautiful women is that they start acting weird in general.
They just start acting totally different than how they usually act.
The problem with this is it comes across as fake and women of her class will immediately pick up on it and expose you as a bullshit artist.
For a lot of men itsoverwhelmingbeing in the presence of women as beautiful as a 10.
So their automatic response is becoming an anxious idiot that starts to ramble and try too hard to impress her.
If you are someone that becomes an idiot with beautiful women then just stop and get your shit together.
I mentioned earlier women are guided by her feelings.
Beautiful women, like any other woman love to feel good.
Women are hard-wired to follow their feelings and emotions.
If you dont evoke any emotion and feelings in her that excites her then you are going to be rejected.
She has to deal with hundreds of men approaching her and messaging her every day.
Why should she deal with a man that is boring and makes her feel nothing?
If you dont know about emotional intelligence then I suggest you start learning.
Or dont andnever date beautiful women.
Most men have problems dating exceptionally beautiful women.
Most of those problems are about those men and not the women.
The only thing beautiful women do brilliantly is to expose the weaknesses in men.
Become independent, interesting, fun and resourceful, and you can get any women you want.
In other words ..build amasculine mindset.
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